A Comprehensive Guide to Vibrating Dildos

A Comprehensive Guide to Vibrating Dildos

Discover the amazing world of vibrating dildos! In this comprehensive guide, we will explore everything you need to know about these versatile pleasure tools. From choosing the perfect vibrating dildo to using it safely and effectively, we've got you covered.

Introduction to Vibrating Dildos

What is a Vibrating Dildo?

A vibrating dildo is a sex toy designed for internal stimulation that combines the shape and functionality of a traditional dildo with the added feature of vibrations. The vibrations can enhance pleasure and provide a unique experience compared to non-vibrating dildos.

Benefits of Using a Vibrating Dildo

  • More intense orgasms: The vibrations can stimulate the sensitive nerve endings, leading to more powerful and satisfying orgasms.
  • Versatility: A vibrating dildo can be used for solo or partnered play, and it can stimulate various erogenous zones, such as the G-spot, P-spot, and clitoris.
  • Improved sexual function: Regular use of a vibrating dildo can help improve blood flow and muscle tone, leading to better sexual health and performance.

Choosing the Perfect Vibrating Dildo

When selecting a vibrating dildo, consider the following factors to ensure you find the perfect match for your desires and needs:


Vibrating dildos are available in various materials, such as silicone, glass, stainless steel, and more. Silicone is the most popular choice due to its body-safe, non-porous, and easy-to-clean properties. When choosing a vibrating dildo, opt for one made from body-safe materials that are phthalate-free and hypoallergenic.


Size is an essential factor to consider when selecting a vibrating dildo. For beginners, a smaller, slimmer vibrating dildo is usually more comfortable and easier to use. More experienced users may prefer larger, more filling options. Keep in mind that it's always better to start small and work your way up to larger sizes.


Vibrating dildos come in various shapes, from realistic replicas to non-phallic designs. Some vibrating dildos are curved to target the G-spot or P-spot, while others have textured surfaces for additional stimulation. Choose a shape that appeals to you and caters to your specific pleasure preferences.


The texture of a vibrating dildo can significantly impact your experience. Some vibrating dildos have smooth surfaces, while others feature ridges, bumps, or veins for added sensation. Consider your personal preferences and what type of texture you think will be most pleasurable for you.


Vibrating dildos can have different vibration settings, from steady vibrations to various patterns and intensities. Some vibrating dildos are controlled using buttons on the device, while others have remote controls or can be controlled via a smartphone app. Consider the type of vibration control that best suits your needs and preferences.

How to Use a Vibrating Dildo Safely

Using a vibrating dildo safely and comfortably involves following a few essential guidelines:


Always use a generous amount of lubricant with your vibrating dildo. Choose a lubricant that is compatible with your toy's material and your body. For example, avoid using silicone-based lubricants with silicone toys, as it can damage the toy's surface.

Browse our selection of lubricants or learn more about some of our favorite lubricants.


Ensure your vibrating dildo is clean before and after each use. Clean your toy according to the manufacturer's instructions and using the appropriate cleaning solutions.

Check out our range of toy cleaners

Start Slow

When using a vibrating dildo for the first time, start with the lowest vibration setting and gradually increase the intensity as you become more comfortable. If you're new to using dildos in general, start with a smaller size and work your way up as you gain experience.


Experiment with different positions to find the most pleasurable and comfortable angle for inserting and using your vibrating dildo. This can include lying down, sitting, or even standing, depending on your preference and the toy's design.

Once you get more comfortable with using your vibrating dildo, check out some of the sex furniture designed to get you in the perfect shape, for the ultimate stimulation. Read all about sex furniture here.

Communication (for couples)

If you're using a vibrating dildo with a partner, maintain open communication about your comfort levels and desires. This will ensure a pleasurable and safe experience for both of you.

Top Vibrating Dildo Brands

When it comes to choosing a high-quality vibrating dildo, selecting a reputable brand can make all the difference. Here are some of the top brands in the industry known for their innovative designs and commitment to quality:


LELO is a luxury sex toy brand that offers a range of premium vibrating dildos. Their products are made from body-safe materials, such as medical-grade silicone, and feature powerful, whisper-quiet motors for discreet pleasure.


We-Vibe is known for their innovative, app-controlled sex toys, including vibrating dildos. Their products offer customizable vibration patterns and intensities, allowing you to tailor your experience to your preferences.

Fun Factory

Fun Factory is a German sex toy brand that creates high-quality, body-safe vibrating dildos with unique designs and powerful motors. They offer a variety of shapes and sizes to cater to different preferences and experience levels.


Satisfyer is a brand that offers a range of innovative and high-quality adult pleasure products designed to provide intense and satisfying experiences for individuals and couples. Their products include a variety of clitoral stimulators, vibrators, and other toys that utilize cutting-edge technology to create unique and pleasurable sensations. Satisfyer products are known for their sleek and stylish designs, user-friendly features, and affordable prices, making them a popular choice for those looking to enhance their sexual experiences.

Magic Wand

Magic Wand is best known for their vibrating wands. Though not exactly a vibrating dildo, the powerful vibrations and its many attachments (for both men and women) are the reason why the Magic Wand is one of the worlds best selling toys.

Best Vibrating Dildos for Beginners

If you're new to the world of vibrating dildos, you may want to start with a product designed specifically for beginners. Here are some features to look for in a beginner-friendly vibrating dildo:

  • Slim and smaller designs: These are more comfortable for first-time users and easier to insert and control. Many companies do offer starter packages that contain a few different sizes. This allows you to work your way up and find the exact size that is comfortable and pleasurable.
  • Simple controls: Look for vibrating dildos with easy-to-use control buttons or dials to help you become familiar with the toy without feeling overwhelmed.
  • Adjustable vibration settings: Choose a vibrating dildo with adjustable settings, so you can start with a gentle vibration and gradually increase the intensity as you become more comfortable.


Best Vibrating Dildos for Couples

Vibrating dildos can also be a fantastic addition to your shared pleasure with a partner. Here are some types of vibrating dildos that are perfect for couples:

  • Remote/App-controlled vibrating dildos: These dildos allow one partner to control the vibrations while the other enjoys the stimulation. This can create a fun and exciting dynamic during playtime.
  • Double-ended vibrating dildos: These dildos feature two insertable ends, allowing both partners to experience the pleasure of vibrating penetration simultaneously.
  • Strap-on compatible vibrating dildos: Some vibrating dildos are designed to be used with a strap-on harness, providing hands-free pleasure and allowing for various sexual positions.

Browse our collection of vibrating dildos for couples

Advanced Vibrating Dildos for Experienced Users

For those who have more experience with sex toys and want to explore new sensations, advanced vibrating dildos offer a range of features and designs to level up your pleasure:

Realistic vibrating dildos

These dildos are designed to mimic the look and feel of a real penis, with lifelike textures and detailing. Some even feature realistic, movable foreskin for added stimulation.

G-spot and P-spot vibrating dildos

These dildos are designed with a curved shaft to target the G-spot (for women) or the P-spot (for men). The vibrations enhance the stimulation, providing intense pleasure.

Thrusting vibrating dildos

Thrusting dildos combine the sensation of penetration with vibration, delivering a more dynamic and fulfilling experience. These toys often have multiple thrusting speeds and vibration settings to customize your pleasure.

Waterproof vibrating dildos

Most dildos offer some sort of water resistance, however there are some that are fully waterproof. This allows you to explore your fun zones in places you’d not normally try. There are many benefits to fully waterproof dildos, including:

  • Enjoy underwater play in the bath, shower, or pool
  • Easy cleaning and maintenance
  • No worries about damaging your toy with water

How to Clean and Maintain Your Vibrating Dildo

Cleaning solutions

  • Use a mild soap and warm water to clean your vibrating dildo after each use.
  • Opt for a specialized sex toy cleaner for added convenience and protection.


  • Store your vibrating dildo in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures.
  • Consider using a storage bag to protect your toy from dust and bacteria.

Battery care

  • Remove batteries from your vibrating dildo when not in use to prevent corrosion.
  • Rechargeable vibrating dildos should be charged regularly to maintain battery life.

Accessories for Your Vibrating Dildo


  • Water-based lubricants are compatible with most vibrating dildos and will enhance comfort and pleasure during use.
  • Silicone-based lubricants should not be used with silicone dildos, as they can damage the material.
  • Some can consider using condoms over their vibrating dildos as well.

Toy Cleaners

  • Use a specialized sex toy cleaner to ensure proper hygiene and care for your vibrating dildo.

Storage Bags

  • Keep your vibrating dildo clean and protected with a storage bag designed for sex toys.

Positioning Aids

  • Enhance your pleasure and comfort during play by using positioning aids, such as pillows or sex furniture.

Common Misconceptions about Vibrating Dildos

Only for solo use

Vibrating dildos can be enjoyed alone or with a partner, offering a range of possibilities for shared pleasure and exploration.

Suitable for everyone

Not all vibrating dildos are suitable for everyone. It's important to choose a toy that aligns with your preferences, experience level, and comfort.

All vibrating dildos are the same

Vibrating dildos come in a wide range of shapes, sizes, materials, and features, offering a diverse selection to cater to different needs and desires.

How to Introduce Vibrating Dildos into Your Relationship

Open communication

Discuss your interest in using a vibrating dildo with your partner, and ensure they are open to exploring this new addition to your intimacy.

Mutual exploration

Experiment with your vibrating dildo together, taking turns controlling the vibrations and discovering what feels best for both of you.

Experimenting with different types of vibrating dildos

Try out different styles and features to find the perfect vibrating dildo for your shared pleasure..

The Health Benefits of Using a Vibrating Dildo

Stress relief

Using a vibrating dildo can help to alleviate stress and promote relaxation, as orgasms release endorphins that can improve mood and reduce anxiety.

Improved sexual function

Regular use of a vibrating dildo can improve sexual function by increasing blood flow to the genital area and promoting overall sexual health.

Pelvic floor strengthening

Vibrating dildos can help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which can improve bladder control and sexual function.

Overall understanding of yourself

Lets face it, sometimes having sex with a partner can be daunting. Getting too focused on orgasming, taking too long, or generally unsure of what you like are all things everyone faces.

That’s where these vibrating dildos can help. During solo play, there is almost no pressure and anxiety as with a partner. This allows you to explore what, where, and how of how to make you feel amazing. After understanding this, communication with your partner allows for amazing sex.


Where to Buy Vibrating Dildos

Online stores

Purchasing a vibrating dildo online offers convenience, privacy, and access to a wide range of options. My Luxury Toys offers a curated selection of high-quality vibrating dildos to suit your preferences and desires.


Explore the various collections at My Luxury Toys to find the perfect vibrating dildo for your needs:


Vibrating dildos offer a range of benefits and possibilities for enhancing your sexual pleasure and well-being. Explore the wide variety of options available, and choose a vibrating dildo that aligns with your preferences, experience level, and desires.

Frequently Asked Questions

  1. Can I use a vibrating dildo with a condom? Yes, you can use a condom with a vibrating dildo for added hygiene and protection, especially when sharing the toy with a partner.
  2. How do I know which size vibrating dildo to choose? Consider your personal preferences, experience level, and comfort when selecting the size of your vibrating dildo. Start with a smaller size if you're new to sex toys and gradually work your way up if desired.
  3. Can I use a vibrating dildo for anal play? Some vibrating dildos are designed specifically for anal play, featuring a flared base for safety. Ensure the toy is suitable for anal use before trying it out.
  4. How long do the batteries last in a vibrating dildo? Battery life varies depending on the type of batteries used, the power of the vibrations, and the duration of use. Rechargeable vibrating dildos typically have longer battery life and are more eco-friendly.
  5. Are there any risks associated with using a vibrating dildo? Using a vibrating dildo is generally safe when done correctly. Follow the manufacturer's instructions, use a compatible lubricant, and clean your toy thoroughly after each use to minimize risks.


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