Welcome, adventurous souls, to a tantalizing topic that's sure to tickle your fancy! Today, we're diving into the delightful world of strapless dildos – those innovative toys that give you a hands-free, strap-free experience of pure pleasure. So, buckle up (or should we say unbuckle?), because we're about to unravel the mysteries of these seductive wonders.
Wait, what are these for?
Okay before we jump into details about strapless dildos, many may ask, what are they for? why would I need them? or even how are they even used?
Fret not my friends, if this is your first foray into the world of strap on sex, then you have came to the right place. First of all, strapped/harnessed dildos along with strapless dildos cam play into the sexual fantasy of pegging if we are referring to the cis-gendered male & female aspect of this. Strapped/harnessed and Strapless dildos is also used for cis-gendered lesbian fun as well. However we would like to label it, these strapped/harnessed and strapless dildos are essentially used to penetrate your partner.
If we are focusing on the cis-gendered male/female aspect, then pegging would be the term in which these strapped/harnessed and strapless dildos would be used. Pegging is an intimate act where a person (typically referred to as the "Top" or "Giver") uses a strap-on dildo to engage in anal penetration with their partner who has a prostate or simply desires anal stimulation (often known as the "bottom" or "receiver"). It's a beautiful fusion of power exchange, trust, and exploration that transcends societal norms and celebrates the vast spectrum of human desires.
What is a Strapless Dildo?
Before we can jump into strapless dildos, we must first understand their counterpart, the strapped, or harnessed dildos.
As the sexual goal of these toys is to penetrate your partner, we must find a way to physical attach these to the "top" body. In order to do so, the initial solution was to come up with various forms for harnesses that allow for the Top to be able to perform this action.
Harnesses come in a variety of forms and shapes, however all carry the basic functions:
- Usually slip on similar to underwear, can be full panties, jock straps, G-strings, or padded belts.
- Has a hole in the front crotch area to allow the dildo to be attached to
How do Strapless Dildos work?
So as you may have guessed, strapless dildo's are essentially a harnessed dildo without the harness. Many toy producers have actually spent years understanding the best way to do this and have come up with a couple of pretty ingenious solutions.
How most of the strapless dildos work is unlike traditional strap-ons, strapless dildos have a unique shape that allows the wearer to insert one end internally while the other end is used for penetration. The internal bulb serves as a clever anchor, keeping the toy securely in place. It's a splendid display of ergonomic engineering, ensuring a hands-free experience that can make even the most skilled multitaskers blush!
The reason in which strapless dildos have become so popular is due to added sensation for the Top. With Harnessed Dildos, the Top usually receives pleasure strictly from the friction of the end if the dildo on their crotch area and the mental pleasure from the power exchange. However, with strapless dildos, in addition to the power exchange, the Top also receives pleasure from the inserted part of the strapless dildo, a win-win.
Strapless vs. Harnessed: The Battle Begins!
Okay, so now you know what both of these are, but which one should you pick: Strapless versus harnessed dildos. Let the games begin! While both bring delight to the table, strapless dildos offer a few tantalizing advantages for the daring souls among us.
The Freedom of Movement: Strapless dildos allow the wearer to channel their inner acrobat, unleashing their inner Cirque du Soleil performer. With no harnesses holding them back, they can explore an array of positions and move with agility, creating a symphony of pleasure.
Shared Sensations: Strapless dildos are all about connection, baby! With both partners feeling the vibrations and sensations simultaneously, it's like a harmonic symphony of pleasure reverberating through your bodies. Talk about teamwork!
No Harness Hassles: Bid farewell to the tangles and trials of harnesses. Strapless dildos skip the cumbersome straps, making them a breeze to slip into action. They are the wild and free creatures of the sex toy world, ready to whisk you away on an unencumbered adventure.
A Learning Curve of Lust: Strapless dildos might require a little practice to find that sweet spot of stability. But fear not, my playful friends, for practice makes perfect! With a touch of perseverance, you'll be a strapless master, waltzing through pleasure like a maestro.
Now, Let's Not Forget Harnessed Dildos:
While strapless dildos may steal the limelight, harnessed dildos have their own charm and allure. They offer stability, control, and a variety of styles to suit your desires. With a harness, you can unleash your inner BDSM enthusiast or explore the realm of pegging with confidence and precision. It's like strapping on your favorite superhero cape and taking charge!
In the end, whether you opt for the strapless enchantment or the harnessed mastery, it's all about finding the toy that tickles your fancy, ignites your passions, and invites you to indulge in pleasure's playground.
How to choose the right size of strapless dildo?
Consider Your Experience Level:
First and foremost, think about your experience level with anal play or vaginal penetration. If you're a beginner or relatively new to using strapless dildos, starting with a smaller size might be a wise choice. This allows your body to adjust gradually and helps you build confidence and familiarity with the toy. As you become more comfortable and experienced, you can explore larger sizes for added excitement.
Girth and Diameter:
The girth and diameter of a strapless dildo play a crucial role in your enjoyment. If you prefer a fuller sensation, opt for a dildo with a larger girth. However, if you're looking for a more manageable or beginner-friendly experience, choose a narrower option. Keep in mind that girthier dildos might require more warm-up, lubrication, and relaxation to ensure a comfortable and pleasurable experience.
Length:
When it comes to length, it's a matter of personal preference and the specific kind of stimulation you desire. Some individuals enjoy deeper penetration, while others prefer a shorter length for more focused pleasure. Take into account your comfort level and the anatomy of your partner. If you're unsure, starting with a medium-length dildo is often a good place to begin.
Curvature and Shape:
The curvature and shape of a strapless dildo can greatly enhance the pleasure and target specific erogenous zones. Consider your desired stimulation—do you crave G-spot or prostate play? Look for dildos with a curved or angled design, as they can provide precise and intense pleasure. Experimenting with different shapes allows you to discover what works best for your body and preferences.
Thankfully here at myluxurytoys, we have an extremely large selection of both harnessed and strapless dildos. Check them all out at our store. However here are 4 of our top strapless dildos:
Commonly asked questions:
So now that you know what strapless dildos are, how they are used, and how to pick the perfect one, we decided to include a quick FAQ to answer any of your remaining questions:
- Are strapless dildos suitable for all couples?
- Absolutely! No matter how you identify, what your sexual position or preference is, as long as the overall sexual goal is to penetrate your partner and have you penetrated at the same time, then strapless dildos are suitable for all couples and partners.
- What are the different types of strapless dildos available?
- There are a ton of different types of strapless dildos, ranging from double ended, to bulb types. Check out the full selection here to see what tickles your fancy.
- Are strapless dildos comfortable to wear?
- Yes! Because there is no harness that you need to continually adjust or get loose, strapless dildos are extremely comfortable. It does take some time to get used to it, and to get it to stay where you want it to. But once you have, its almost like its been their your entire life.
- Can strapless dildos be used for both vaginal and anal play?
- Yes, Strapless dildos are meant to penetrate your partner in any hole they are willing to do (vaginal, anal, oral). However its highly recommended not to do them all at the same time. One suggestion is to use a condom over the strapless dildo and change it out when you are switching holes.
- Do strapless dildos require any special lubrication?
- Yes and no. It depends as we do carry silicone based strapless dildos. For all silicone toys its important to not use any silicone based lubricant's as it degrades the toy over time. If you are choosing a silicone strapless dildo, consider our many water based lubes. If you do want to use silicone, consider using a condom overtop of the toy prior to using the silicone lube.
- How do I clean and maintain a strapless dildo?
- Its important to keep your toys clean. The most cost effective way to do so is to wash your toys using a good quality dish soap after each use. Air drying is also the preferred method. However, to ensure the best cleanliness and maintenance, specifically designed toy cleaners would be your best bet.
- Are strapless dildos safe to use?
- Yup! Ensure you are selecting the correct size so you are not over exerting yourself or your partner and everything should be perfect.
- Can strapless dildos be used for solo play?
- Yes, since it is still a dildo, on the times when you just need to get stuffed, inserting the dildo part of the toy into you will be fine. It will get a bit clunky since the other end is exposed.
- Can strapless dildos provide simultaneous stimulation for both partners?
- Oh my goodness yes! This is one of the best features of the strapless dildo. Since both partners are penetrated, it provides simultaneous physical stimulation.