Okay, lets face it, you have seen butt plugs everywhere. From your local Christmas Market (huge oversight here), to not so subtle reference in Everything, Everywhere, All at Once.
But does thinking about this give you anxiety? Never really ventured down that area before? or maybe you have and you want to learn more? Well, sit back, and and let us help get you started and comfortable with that region.
Lets start at the beginning, What are butt plugs?
Butt plugs are sex toys designed for anal play. They typically consist of a tapered or bulbous head that widens into a flared base, which prevents the plug from being fully inserted into the rectum. Butt plugs come in a variety of sizes, materials, and shapes, and they can be made of silicone, metal, glass, or other materials.
But why do people use them and what do butt plugs do?
So not all anal fun is created equally. Some people like deep, while others like the gentle kissing of the anus. Whatever it is, butt plugs play an important role in anal fun.
Most of the time, butt plugs are used as a good foray into the world of anal play. With its un-intimating shape and ability to nestle nicely into your butt, many use it as a gateway into other anal fun (including using dildos, P-Spot fun, or just good old fashion anal sex).
Others however like to use it to enhance their solo or partner play. For solo play many men (and women) enjoy the added stimulation. For partner play, in addition to the added stimulation, butt plugs can also play a good part of Kink/BDSM play allowing for submissive/dominance.
How do you use a Butt Plug?
Because they are all created differently, it will be pretty difficult to give you exact instructions on how to use them. But we give you a few general instructions that should apply to most butt plugs.
After many years of anal exploration, here are a couple main things you should know before using a butt plug:
NEVER, and I mean never, should anal penetration be painful. Whether you are new to it or not, anal penetration with a butt plug, or dildo or anything else should not hurt. Pain is a sign you are not relaxed, which is even more important during anal play than any other activity. And lets face it, what's the fun of sexual activities if you are not relaxed, right?
The other tip we can provide is:
Always start smaller than you think you can handle and lube, lube and more lube. Many people think that because they can handle a big penis or dildo in other parts of their bodies, that anal fun is the same. That is completely not true.
So why are butt plugs so pleasurable?
Obviously, as a frequent surveyor of my anus, I may be biased. However one of our favorite gay adult entertainers and writer of the "First Openly Gay Book Club" newsletter, Ty Mitchell has said:
“It’s a sensation of fullness and a feeling of pressure that permeates the whole pelvic area that’s intense and good, you just have to lean into it with a little bit of submission.” And if you’re hesitant about making a mess, don’t worry. “Sex is inherently messy, whether it’s emotionally messy or physically messy, and that’s what makes it amazing,” says Michell. “Whether it’s shitting, squirting, sweating, cumming, or whatever, it’s just part of the deal.”
And with that, we do hope that we may have convinced you to break that barrier and begin to explore areas of your body you may never have even fathomed. But before you leave giddily into your room and start poking you butt, we have compiled our best and favorite butt plugs for beginners and the not so beginners.
Best Butt Plugs for Beginners
A Play Trainer Set of 3
What a great way to start off your anal adventures with the A Play Trainer Set. Containing 3 beginner sizes and made out of body-safe silicone, this set allows you to start slow and work your way up. The stem is also narrow and flexible allowing for even more comfort and longer term play.
A Play Rechargeable Beginner Plug and Remote
With its wireless remote and strong internal motor with 10 different vibrating functions, the A Play is a staple butt plug. Each of the 10 stimulating patterns offers users deep, rumbling vibrations conveniently controlled directly on the product or via the included wireless remote.
Glas 3 Piece Glass Training Kit
Glass my seem daunting to begin your anal adventures, however with its easy to clean temperature conducting properties, glass can be one amazing way to start off your butt plug adventures. Glas contains 3 starter sizes that will take you through different levels to prepare your journey through the back door.
Blue Line Beginners Beaded Jelly Plug
What a great way to start off your anal adventures with the A Play Trainer Set. Containing 3 beginner sizes and made out of body-safe silicone, this set allows you to start slow and work your way up. The stem is also narrow and flexible allowing for even more comfort and longer term play.
Nu Sensuelle Power Plug with Remote
Designed for all genders, this unisex butt plug is one of our favorites for beginners. With its insertable length of 4.5 inchers, the Power Plug is known for the intense vibrations that pulse uniformly out of the entire butt plug. Combined with the wireless remote and the waterproof body, this toy is ready to be used in anyone, anywhere.
Satisfyer Booty Call Plugs
Satisfyer changed the world by introducing amazing clit stimulators, and have decided to take on the butt plug world. The Booty Call Plugs come in a pack of 3 different style options allowing for experimentation of what feels best for you. These 3 soft silicone butt plugs and their different sizes, and sensations are perfect for beginners.
Satisfyer Lolli Plug 1
Satisfyer ends up making our list twice. With the Lolli Plug 1, the 3 ascending diamond shaped beads perfectly fill, caress and press all of your anal pleasure points. But it does not stop there, the Lolli Plug 1 contains 2 strong motors that are strategically placed to provide max sensations throughout your body. Perfect for beginners and more advance players, the Lolli Plug was definitely one of our favorite butt plugs.
Sport Fucker Thunder Plug Asslock
Sport Fucker has been known around the sex toy industry for almost all their toys. The wildly popular Thunder Plug was something not to be missed. Though it did not make our list, the Thunder Plug Asslock did. This not only has one of the most comfortable plugs we have ever tried, but combines their ever popular cock rings to it as well. With every movement, the Thunder Plug Asslock tops your prostate while the cock ring keeps you hard and horny for more.
b-Vibe Weighted Snug Plug
if you have not heard of b-Vibe, you have been missing out. This is one of the worlds most comfortable (if not the most) and most diverse range of butt plugs. To start off with, the stem of each of these plugs are super thin allowing for long term comfort. But that's not all, their entire range contains sizing from 1 to 4 and different weights allowing for the perfect fit and feeling of fullness. Check out our favorite the Snug Plug 3, or their entire line to find your perfect fit.
VeDO Bump Plus Rechargeable Remote Control Butt Plug
VeDO is known far and wide for their luxury feature-packed toys, and the Bump Plus is no exception at all. Classically tapered, this vibrating plug is nice and sleek, shaped for comfy penetration and a gentle (but very noticeable!) stretch. Once inside, you or a partner can rock the rounded base in hand for a customized massage session, or you can just let the Bump's ten super-charged vibration modes do their thing.
VeDO Earth Quaker Anal Vibe
Yes, we loved VeDO so much we included 2 of their toys. The Earth Quaker is one to talk about as it has 12 powerful vibration modes. The graduated beads of this vibe are ideal for easing your way into anal play. While the long, bulbous shaft and silky smooth silicone texture is perfect for enjoying deeper delights. There is a reason VeDO has been voted one of the best butt plug brands out there.
Butt Plugs for Those Looking for More
Titanman 6" Anal Stretcher
Not to scare anyone off here, but we wanted to be as inclusive as we could. We know some of you guys will love ass play so much that you are looking to get stuffed. What better way to do so than the Titanman Expansion Plug. Designed to suit almost every level of play, the dramatic cone shape may seem intimidating, but is one of the toys you bring out to challenge yourself.
Evolved Rainbow Metal Plug
Though this might not be considered advanced, metal plugs are one of our favorite as they add the proper weight and can retain heat (or cold) for some added sensations. The Evolved Rainbow plug features an extra long tapered tip allowing for easy entry. The slick rainbow finish of this aluminum alloy is completely body safe and is super to clean. The added Gem at the safety base allows for you to show off your best assets.
Glas 7.25" Glass Beaded Butt Plug
Another glass butt plug made it onto our list. This beaded beauty is designed for orgasmic backdoor stimulation with a row of smooth glass beads in graduated sizes. Each bead can be inserted with ease and then slowly pulled out for even more stimulation upon removal. The flared base ensures that it safely stays in place when in use.
Shots Ouch Puppy Play Tail Butt Plug
What is a favorite butt plug list without the classic pup play tails. The Shots Ouch Tail Butt Plug is a must have for anyone who wants to venture down this road. The rubber nature of it allows for the swings of the tail to be felt deep into the plug ensuring ever wag is felt right where its right..
Blush Anal Adventures Anal Anchor
Not recommended for the faint of heart, the Anal Adventures Anal Anchor is designed for those looking to explore new sensations, alone or with a partner. The flexible tips open and spread up to 4 inches wide for the ultimate full feeling. The total insertion length is 3.5 inches by 2 inches in width.