Vibrators come in six main types: bullets and minis, wands, rabbits, G-spot vibes, clitoral air-pulse toys, and app or remote-controlled toys. Pick by where you want to feel it: outside, inside, or both. Then narrow by power, size, noise and charging. Every order ships in plain, unbranded packaging.
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How to choose a vibrator
Start with where you want to feel it. Outside play suits bullets, wands and air-pulse toys. Inside play suits G-spot vibes. If you want both at once, look at rabbits and other dual-stimulation toys. Then weigh power, size, noise and how it charges. Read the full vibrator guide.
Types, features and care at a glance
Vibrator types at a glance
| Type |
Best for |
Good to know |
| Bullet and mini |
Beginners, travel, clitoral play |
Small and budget-friendly. Less power than a wand. |
| Wand |
Strong, broad outside stimulation; body massage |
Usually the most powerful type. Bigger to hold and store. |
| Rabbit and dual-stim |
Inside and outside at the same time |
Check the outside arm's distance from the shaft so it lines up with your body. |
| G-spot |
Inside play |
Curved tip for targeted pressure. Start with a slimmer shaft. |
| Clitoral suction and air-pulse |
Outside play without direct contact |
Uses pulses of air instead of only vibration. Womanizer and Evolved both make air-pulse toys. |
| App and remote |
Couples, long-distance, hands-free |
Remote range and app features differ by model. Check before you buy. |
Features that matter
- Power and feel. "Rumbly" vibration feels deep; "buzzy" vibration feels sharper and on the surface. Read reviews for which one a toy has.
- Noise. No standard noise test exists for sex toys, so "whisper quiet" is the maker's own claim. Lower settings are quieter on nearly every toy.
- Charging. USB-rechargeable toys save on batteries. Battery toys are cheaper and easy to swap on the go.
- Water. "Splash-proof" and "waterproof" are not the same. Only use a toy in the bath or shower if the maker says it is fully waterproof.
- Size. Smaller toys are easier to start with and to travel with. You can always size up later.
Materials and care
- Non-porous materials (100% silicone, ABS plastic, glass, metal) are the easiest to clean. [1]
- Porous materials (jelly rubber, TPE/elastomer, PVC) have tiny pores that can hold bacteria even after washing. Keep them for solo play, or use a condom when sharing. [1]
- There are no national safety regulations for sex toys in the US, so look for toys that list their materials clearly. [2]
- Clean your vibrator after every use with mild soap and warm water or a toy cleaner. Never put a toy that isn't waterproof under water, and don't boil anything with a motor. [1]
- Lube: water-based lube is the safest choice for silicone toys. Some silicone lubes can react with silicone toys, especially soft ones. [3] See our lube compatibility guide for a full chart.
FAQ
What vibrator is best for beginners?
A bullet, a mini vibe or a small G-spot vibe. They're simple to use and lower priced, so you can learn what you like before spending more.
What's the difference between a rabbit and a wand?
A rabbit goes inside and has a second arm for the clitoris, so it gives both kinds of stimulation at once. A wand stays outside and is usually stronger, with a broad head.
Are quiet vibrators really quiet?
No toy is silent. Noise depends on the motor and the speed you use. Since there's no standard noise test, treat "quiet" labels as a guide and keep to lower settings if noise matters.
What lube should I use with a silicone vibrator?
Water-based lube. If you want to use silicone lube, check that the toy's maker says it's compatible first.
How will my order arrive?
In a plain, unbranded box with no product details on the outside. No invoice goes in the box (it's emailed), and your card statement shows "NRT Wellness."
Learn more
Sources
- Healthline, "How to Clean Your Sex Toys and Accessories," medically reviewed by Jennifer Litner, PhD, LMFT, CST (Mar 15 2021): https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/how-to-clean-sex-toys
- Public Health Post (Boston University School of Public Health), "Sex Toys: Pleasure or Risk?" (Mar 18 2025): https://www.publichealthpost.org/research/sex-toys-pleasure-or-risk/
- Sliquid official FAQ, "Is Sliquid Silver safe to use with silicone toys?": https://sliquid.com/sliquid-faq/
This guide is general product information, not medical advice. Last updated: October 21, 2026.
